Setting the bar too high dating
If your net doesn’t bring up enough potentials, expand your search and do your vetting in person rather than online.At the very worst, you will come out having learned even more about yourself and your needs.
A man may think he only wants to meet a woman under the age of 35, but what if the perfect 36 year old came along?
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Focusing on goals that are far away or can only be experienced in a distant (or alternative) future means we never really experience rewards for our efforts.
Instead of saying something like, "I'll be happy when I'm thin and muscular," say, "I'll be happy when I go to the gym." Immediately achievable goals set by a lower bar are far more effective in getting you to your desired target emotion than the cycle of failure triggered by a bar set too high.